July events

Traditionally, July is a slow month in Charlotte, and that's a good thing. We all need a chance to slow down a bit and enjoy our summer as much as we can. If you are in town and are looking for something to do on the social scene, here are a few events taking place that might interest you. 

July 3

CELEBRATE AMERICA! 

The last in the series of Sunday pops concerts under the stars performed by the Charlotte Symphony goes out with a bang with a selection of patriotic music followed by fireworks. Gates open at 5 p.m.; prelude at 7 p.m.; concert at 8:15 p.m. Symphony Park at SouthPark mall. $15; free for 16 and younger. 704-972-2000.

July 4

NOVANT HEALTH JULY 4TH SPECTACULAR

Celebrate the birth of our nation in a family-friendly setting that's alcohol-free and includes entertainment, activities, a performance by the band Swingin' Richards and fireworks. 6-10 p.m.; the 20-minute fireworks show starts at 9:30 p.m. Free. Memorial Stadium, 310 N. Kings Drive. www.charlottecentercity.org. 

July 16

MEN'S NIGHT OUT

Dan Mauney, owner of the boutiques Shu and Brief, hosts this event at his South End store. Fashion experts will give out tips, there are bourbon and craft beer tastings, plus information on how men can take care of their physical and mental health. 6-9 p.m. RSVP to dan@shopbrief.com.  

July 17-19

THE GRAY CLASSIC

Philanthropists Herb and Felicia Gray host the series of events held over one weekend that include a Business Roundtable, Golf Tournament and Women's Empowerment Brunch. Proceeds go to 100 Black Men of Greater Charlotte's mentoring and education programs for youths. Ticket prices vary. To register for events, go to www.thegrayclassic.com. 

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Young Professionals @ International House

All young professionals are invited to a Japanese Business Etiquette as part of a Young Professionals @ International House program. 

An added bonus is that the event is at the Charlotte City Club, a private club uptown at 21 W. Trade St. that has spectacular views of Charlotte.

The event is from 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday, June 25. 

Since 1981, the nonprofit International House has been a leading provider of direct services to Charlotte’s growing international community, which numbers more than 104,000 immigrants and foreign-born citizens. It offers foreign-language conversation hours, cultural events, an international book club, citizen diplomacy programs, an international women’s group, language classes, free citizenship workshops, legal services for low-income immigrants and more.

Details: www.ihclt.org. 

Olivia, the party is tomorrow night

The headline on this blog are the words I absolutely did not want to hear when I showed up at a friend's house for a big bash she and her husband were hosting for their son who was recently married in a ceremony in Brooklyn. The party was to introduce their son's new bride to all their Charlotte friends.

When I pulled up to the party, doubt had begun to set in. The couple are incredible hosts and their parties are notoriously fun, but there weren't a lot of cars around. As I walked to the door in my party outfit holding a tray filled with two dozen Deviled Eggs I had made (you can never have too many Deviled Eggs), I was relieved when I saw the hostess open the door and walk outside with a couple.

But when she looked at me, the expression on her face immediately told me I had messed up. "Olivia, the party is tomorrow night," was the first thing she said. The couple who were leaving were a cousin and his wife who had dropped by for a visit. I had shown up 24 hours early for the party.

"I have Deviled Eggs," was all I could think to say to pull myself out of the party hole.

Luckily we go way back, so it wasn't as awkward as it could have been, but it was still incredibly embarrassing. It all turned out well, mainly because this family is always so warm and welcoming. I ended up hanging out with them for the next couple of hours. We drank wine, they ate all my Deviled Eggs and I had a chance to really talk to the newly married couple. We looked at photos and video from their incredible honeymoon in Tahiti. Being with them alone turned out to be great for me - I really got to know the bride and reminisce with her husband, who I've watch grow up. At a crowded party, I never would have gotten that quality time with them.

The last time I made such a mega party goof was at a wedding several years ago. I got the time wrong and when my husband and I pulled up, all the guests had just started streaming out of the church. I told my husband to pull into a space and we would wait until some cars started leaving and drive on over to the reception. On the way to the reception site, I made him swear to me that he would never mention that we completely missed the ceremony. I figured no one would notice that we hadn't actually been in the church, and I was correct.

At the reception, I tried to keep my compliments in the present. Isn't the bride beautiful? Isn't the food wonderful? I never would have lied and acted as if I had seen the wedding, but I didn't feel it was necessary to bring attention to my mistake on a day that's all about the married couple.

At least I got the day right.

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Dine Out For Kids

Communities In Schools of Charlotte-Mecklenburg (CIS) is celebrating the 15th anniversary of Dine Out For Kids, which falls on June 17. Around 80 restaurants will donate a portion of sales that day to the nonprofit that helps at-risk children stay in school.

To participate, all you have to do is eat at one of them. For a list of all the restaurants: www.cischarlotte.org.

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Emily Maynard wedding details

When Charlotte reality TV celebrity Emily Maynard of “The Bachelorette” fame married her beau Tyler Johnson in a surprise ceremony at his family’s farm last weekend (guests thought they were attending an engagement party), she picked People magazine to exclusively cover the event.

In the magazine’s write-up about the wedding, which is out on newsstands now, you’ll see a lot of Charlotte businesses mentioned.

Ivy Robinson Events planned the reception along with John Lupton Events. The magazine described the decor as “rustic glam.” Guests ate a menu of Maynard’s favorite Southern foods including pickled shrimp, fried okra and mini cheese tarts, macaroni and cheese, fried green tomatoes and pulled pork. Wow Factor Cakes created the four-tier wedding cake.

For party favors, guests were given burlap bags filled with Neet's Sweets pies in a jar and all-natural cookies from Helen's Kitchen.

The magazine also reports that back in May, Emily had a White Trash Bash bachelorette party in Nashville. Her female friends including fellow reality star and country singer Jessie James Decker of the TV show "Eric & Jessie," drove around Nashville in a pink Hummer limo while dressed in crazy outfits that included a lot of trucker hats, camo and Daisy Duke shorts. 

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"Matters of the Heart" book signing

Carol Fore Injaychock of Charlotte will sign copies of her new book, "Matters of the Heart: A Cancer Journey," from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. June 14 at Park Road Books, 4139 Park Road. 

It tells the emotional journey of her breast cancer diagnosis and treatment through short essays. She wrote it to give insight into what a cancer patient endures, the impact it has on their family and in her case, how her faith was strengthened through it all.

The book also includes quotes, scriptures and the author's own poetry. 

Details: www.carolforeinjaychock.com. 

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Maya Angelou Women Who Lead Luncheon

Organizers of the 12^th Annual UNCF Maya Angelou Women Who Lead Luncheon on June 28 at the Westin Charlotte say the event will continue as planned, despite the renowned poet’s recent death. It will now become a tribute dedicated to remembering her life and commitment to education.

Angelou was a volunteer with the United Negro College Fund for more than 25 years. She always participated in the popular luncheon named for her that’s held annually in Charlotte and has raised more than $1 million since its inception 11 years ago. 

It’s usually sold out, but for information on ticket availability, call Marilyn Richards at the UNCF Charlotte office, 704-377-8625. 

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